Way back in August 2005 I started this blog and stopped writing several years later when life got too busy. I am leaving it up for future readers to find. I post pics almost every week though as I surf the net.
It isn't really about naked pics. It is about me exposing by deepest sexual secrets and leaving myself and my soul completely naked for the world to see.
Way back in the early 2000's I discovered a need to be vulnerable and naked in front of others, whether it be in public, among other naked guys, among clothed guys, or in front of authority.
Sometimes I like to be tied down, spanked, flogged and tortured. Sometimes I like to be physically examined and humiliated by someone of authority. I am a complete exhibitionist.
I also like to see others in the same situation where I am the one clothed or the one in authority.
I am not the greatest writer in the world. Some may say I stink and that I should keep my day job. I am not writing this blog to be a writer but to record my exploration of these fetishes. Every story is as accurate as my memory allows except the names of the people I encounter and most of the pictures. The pictures in this blog are, for the majority, not me. I pulled most of them from various sites on the internet. I will give credit to the individual photo owners when I know where they came from. If you see a pic that is yours and you want to take it down just let me know.
I'll tell ya, Jared, I come here because of the "completely nakedness" of the site as an online very personal journal that is honest, well-written, funny, and smart. Oh, and sexy and hot and even, well, joyful.
Posted by: JasonM | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 01:30 PM
I ditto what JasonM says: you're honest. It's not just that the stories are hot but there's a real honesty and curiosity as you explore your sexuality, and it's very sex affirming and mature in admitting your desires and needs and going for them. Even though you'd think gay men would be open and exploratory with their sexuality, I find many are a little uncomfortable openly discussing -- or even admitting -- some of their more kinky desires, and your frankness is refreshing. Moreover, there is a certain maturity in your sexuality that is refreshing because it seems driven by sexuality rather than drugs. I wish you well in your life and with your man.
Posted by: mary | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 02:03 PM
Jared, for us it's simple - you are sexy, fun and intelligent. You're willing to open your heart to others and unique at making your readers feel like we're all good friends stopping by for a visit. Our only wish is that you and Nathan lived next door.
Posted by: GAYTWOGETHER | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 02:43 PM
I also agree with everything JasonM and Mary said. Plus I read your blog to keep a feel for life in the Castro. You live in our Gay Mecca, and for those who have lived there or visited, or even hope to visit, you often remind us how woinderful it is that there is one US city where Gay is truly lived. I Google Earthed your instruction to follow the path at the big tree on the left side of the parking lot down to the beach; pick out houses I think I remember tricking in from your overview picts of the neighborhood; relive past parades and fun nights; etc. You are "our man in SF," and we rely on you to keep us connected with the center of our universe.
With love and thanks,
Posted by: Paul | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 02:54 PM
Uh, Jared dude, I don't have a cock.
I come here for all of the reasons listed above.
Posted by: Sue | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 04:21 PM
Jared, I keep coming back because I believe your stories. So many of the other sex blogs seem to be made up or fantasies, but yours seems sincere. You come across as a real human being not "super stud" and none of your post are screaming for attention, they are just simple stories about your life. A fun and interesting life, but you write them so honestly. I agree with the poster that said they wished you lived next door.
Posted by: Alex S | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 05:12 PM
I like to hear about guys getting laid, having erotic adventures, and breaking the rules. I particularly like it when the accounts are well and vividly written. You have a very individual voice and the fact you're hot as fuck doesn't hurt either.
Posted by: Will | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 06:10 PM
The pics are nice, but I can find a million anywhere. That's not why I come back every day. I originally came -- and returned -- to read about your personal experiences, especially your more exhibitionist ones. It's nice to read about real experiences, not obvious fantasies (and living in SF, it's like watching a movie filmed your hometown). But in the process, I became totally drawn into your relationship and love to get every update.
Posted by: Daedalus | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 08:37 PM
I checked your blog out because of your interest in exhibitionism/voyeurism and CM/NM. I read all your posts though because of how much of yourself, insecurities included, you are willing to share.
Did u ever get a chance to read the other stories on my blog?
Posted by: Jake | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 09:24 PM
Jared, you should make voters choose :P
to see which reason mattered the most....I suppose.
Posted by: Irwin | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 10:40 PM
Yes Jake I read them all. You are a great writer.
Thanks for your responses. I'll just keep doing what I am doing then . . .
j
Posted by: jared | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 10:58 PM
Looks like we all have the same reasons. Fun, Hot, and you've made us feel like we've been friends for years. I liked the comparison between you and Matt at Palm Springs. Next time Nathan decides to leave for a while, go with him and fill us in. Just stay away from the jungles
Posted by: sonny | Monday, June 26, 2006 at 11:23 PM
Jared, I came to your site because of the pics originally but love your life and lifestyle. Frankly, I'm envious of your activities and wish that I had a similar group of friends and opportunities in the conservative corner of Florida where I live. You have helped me in my path to total liberation and I have learned alot from the description of your life and passions. Thanks for sharing with us.
Posted by: Rob Stewart | Tuesday, June 27, 2006 at 05:16 AM
As much for the hot stories as for the Jared and Nathan soap opera. I'm hooked.
Posted by: David | Tuesday, June 27, 2006 at 08:02 AM
Ok, I have to say it's the updates, stories and pics you post. (In that order.) I just found this site about 2 weeks ago, and I have to say that I love it! You come across as a very caring, sincere and interesting person. Thanks for opening up to all of us and keep up the awesome work.
Posted by: Martymar | Tuesday, June 27, 2006 at 04:07 PM
i am enthralled and intrigued at the arc of your adventure; you are plainly an amazingly intelligent person; that said, what draws me here is the chance to observe a level of narcisism that is almost beyond my capacity to understand. the rhetoric employed to "explain" your journey is intriguing; I admire your ability to build this world; it is a fascism of fantasia.
Posted by: Denis | Tuesday, June 27, 2006 at 09:51 PM
straight female here.....I have an interest in HOT, naked, gay men and I am intrigued by people that put it all out there! Love reading about a lifestyle that I will never experience yet can catch a glimpse of now and again....your openmindedness and honest portrayal is a huge turn on!
Posted by: cbnagrl | Wednesday, June 28, 2006 at 10:20 AM
I really am disappointed that the votes run towards images vs jared & nathan. Some of us do truely love you and your blog, including everything with nathan & jeff!
Posted by: David | Tuesday, July 04, 2006 at 01:18 PM