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Sunday, November 19, 2006


J its a phase dude, I'm like that at the moment. I think it's just a season thing. But can I say you are blessed to, that you've got someone to come home to! And loves you!

Life's what you make of it... When I come home and my BF has the whole house smelling of delicious soup on a cold night, or we just watch a movie with drinks at home it's as special as a trip to Paris or a weekend in Aspen.

Are you seriously complaining about this? Bizarre.

Jordan is right. Be happy you're together, and stop seeing life as a trend and rather a bunch of individuals events. What you do tomorrow isn't dependent on what you've been doing the past year.


Everyone knows that middle aged couples are no fun. ;) You should have had dinner with single guys if you wanted to get out of a rut. They'll tell you want kind of fun they've been having making you envious for some of the action yourselves!

let it go - it's called love and life.

it's what we do. it's who we are. you can't dance on every set. as life goes on, you dance less and less - but you still dance.

let it go and be happy you are in love.

Our lives are cyclic, just like the seasons... you won't have the same activities in the winter that you have in the summer... think about it on a yearly cycle, and look forward to spring, when you two can look forward to new adventures and new conquests. For now, it's going into winter, and it is time to stay home and snuggle in front of the fire with someone that is special. Enjoy it, it will change with the seaons in a few months.

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I don't know if it's a matter of season like it's been said above. What I know is that being a couple is a daily job, you have to work everyday to make it last as long as possible. And yes, if you don't pay attention, love and passion might become friendship and tenderness (which is good too). But obviously, you would find that boring. The good thing is that you're thinking about that and it's the best start to build the couple relationship you wish.

Take care...

Don't let this scare you. It's a deeper love. Most straight relationships end at this point because they fear passion is over. This is what people spend their life looking for. It's not over...it takes hard work to spice it up, but you both can be truly satisfied if you try.

I think you need to get your priorities straight, Jared. You've done the disco, party-boy scene. Now it's time to be a grown-up. Nothing "better" to talk about than adopting a child (ie -- creating a family) and building a home in Tahoe??? Sounds to me like those people are busy living their lives. You live in one of the most culturally exciting cities in the world, yet all you do is complain about not going to the bars and the beach. Take stock of yourself, man. Expand your hosrizons. Try something different. Nothing is sader than a 30-something guy trying to be a 20-something guy.

I won't bitch-slap you like the other commenters, although I am itching to. You KNOW you have it better than 80% of the gay men in this world, right?

Good, now enjoy another "boring" night at home with the man who loves you, enjoying your mutual good health, in your beautiful home, in a safe city in a prosperous country.

"Grow old along with me.
The best is yet to be;
the last of life,
for which the first was made."

I appreciate life is relative, so boring means different things. And boring (and complacency) can be relationship killers in time. Nothing is perfect, no one is perfect so no relationship is perfect, except perfect to those involved in it. Again, life is subjective..... and grass isn't always greener on the other side. Every relationship -gay or straight- hits the peaks and the valleys, good or bad, happy or sad... The fun and challenge is to keep what is going on as fresh as possible if Nathan is perfect for you.

So to this single romantic, it sounds and reads like life is a pretty good, however boring it may be to other people. Or however boring it may seem compared to what life was just a few years ago. It's called maturing, growing up, whatever. It's not a bad thing, especially, again, if the guy in front of you across the table or snuggled next to you on the couch or cuddled close to you in bed is pretty damn special to you.

But then, again, monogamy turns me on.... WITH that endless energy of sex/making love, of course.......

Yup - know that one! I am 33, my partner of 11 years is 34 - we are so caught up in our daily lives: work, sleep, work, sleep that we barely have time to really appreciate each other, let alone the finer things in life. I don't believe that any of us have to settle into that "accepted norm" of hetrosexuality where we marry, have kids and live in a cottage by the sea (God forbid - actually, give me the cottage but throw the kid into the sea). Life goes on for us and timing is different for us. We just have to stop, take stock and reassess what is important to us. Hard to do I know, but essential...oh, and leave the house every now and then!

So I'm guessing I'm not the only one who really wonders about coupled life and how eventually there's no partying, no crazy sex, just TV, dinners and being swamped by the day to day. I'm feeling the same way, but everynow and then I stop and think, well I have a boyfriend which in gay terms is a rare thing. So when that becomes less worth than the party, then I think thats when change happens, but so long as there's a reason for me to be there...it make sense

WHAT A BORE YOU MUST BE... Just wait till you're 50....God spare me tedious young men.

Honey, you can't keep going 90mph when you've got the mileage some of us in our 30s have. My partner and I have slowed down mainly so we don't look like we're 60 when we're barely pushing 40!! Have you seen those 40+ queens at the club who still go out every weekend like they're 21? All that shows on their faces...S-C-A-R-Y! But we still manage to take her out for a spin every month or so. There's nothing wrong with the homebody routine as long as you mix it up every once in a while. Why don't you guys throw a holiday party? Get the queens drunk and throw down!

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