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Monday, January 29, 2007

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Please do not take this the wrong way, but I've noticed an odd factor in your fetishes. Something that puzzles me. You engage in a fetish scene, seem to enjoy it to an extreme degree, but suddenly there's something that bothers you.

I thought that the height of a fetish scene was the total giving of yourself to another. EVEN when you may not be totally happy with every component.

This scene in particular is perplexing. "This was by far the hottest experience I have ever had with a one-night stand." But then you write "He wanted to see me again, to have coffee with him or something. I didn't respond and don't plan to see him."

This by no means should be viewed as a criticism, I'm just trying to understand your outlook. Have you thought of giving more consideration to what you think a scene should be? Or of setting guidelines upfront.

I do think that the master of a scene should not make comments that are in ANYWAY derogatory or judgmental - UNLESS that's an upfront, agreed to part of the scene. Some people are into humiliation, some are devastated by it. (I for one do not care for it in the least! I have enough problems with my psyche without damaging comments when I'm most vulnerable physically and emotionally.)

Think of me as your aging uncle trying to offer gentle advice to let you have better scenes. Alas, we're never given a book that tells us how to be gay; and, we're sure as hell, never given one that tells us how to enjoy fetishes.

it seems like you had a wonderful time. why not go for an encore?

in any event, thanks for sharing the tale. it was way hot and i enjoyed it.

sounds very sexy to me I jump at the chance to go again.
Hey u have such exciting life!!! or do u make it up?

rainhawk. this scene was perfect for me. he tested my boundries and quickly backed off when he saw my reaction. no harm done. the reason i don't plan on seeing him is that he wanted to take the relationship further than i wanted to go. this was just play for me not the beginning of a relationship. he wanted a relationship with me.

Very hot. A result of reading your blog is that your readers begin to care about you. I have complained before (this is the last time, I've becomming a nag) that you often give no indication that you have let limits, gotten referrals, or even set up a safe call. I know of noone in this lifestyle that would encourage recklessness. Please, Jared . . . take care of yourself!

Thanks D. Do you guys really want me to tell you all the precautions I took in the story and how I set it up.

You are making assumptions here on what I did to set this up and shouldn't be without asking.

Great story as always, Jared.

Knowing that you've played this way once or twice before (>g<), I still get a little tense at some of the things you relate, but I'm thinking you're a pretty careful guy. And I know there's always at least 2 guys out there (N&J) that will always have your back and you'd never put yourself in a position that might negatively impact them (as in allowing yourself to blindly walk into a situation where you might get hurt.)

I think what you leave out of your stories adds to the excitement of them.

Okay, I'm wet. J, do ever wonder how many of us read your blog when we're - completely naked. I'm gonna start. It'll save time trying to get my dick outta my jeans when I find myself in the middle of one of your hot stories... not to mention the zipper burn.

Jared, this is one of your hottest stories and it sounds like you throughly enjoyed yourself as well. I love it when you go into more detail about how you set it up and precautions and all that...gives us something to build up to! Thanks AGAIN for sharing!

Jared,

Thanks for the clarification. I definitely see your point.

Let me share a quick personal story about precautions. I was in a slave-master relationship several years ago. On a Saturday afternoon, I'm spread-eagled, tied tightly on the bed. My pubes, dick and balls have just been shaved. My balls are stretched to their limit. And he's playing with some nasty metal tit clamps. When suddenly his cell phone goes off! I can tell from the conversation that it's his wife, of whom I've know nothing! I also pick up that she thinks he's at the nursery supposedly looking at rose bushes. But someone from work has called with an emergency.

Holy fucking shit! The first thing I realized was that I'd not thought on any need for precautions. Second on my mind was a vision of the wife kicking in the door with a double barrel and splattering my corporeal presence all over the bedroom curtains. Needless, to say, I decided to find other ways to entertain myself.

In terms of details, I find them an incredible turn-on: pre, during and post. It adds to my warped sense of vicarious pleasure. This is sheer undisguised lascivious greed on my part. But these are your commentaries, so you by rights are the sole arbiter of what you wish to say or not say. I may want to reveal my story about the leash and collar, but I may not want to mention the ram.

jared, I stand chastened . . . and relieved. Er . . . and, rainhawk, I may be in lust! ;)

Wow, totally hot. I love the idea of him locking away your clothes....

Jared, reading about your experiences where you explore your fetishes makes me think about my own and is encouraging me to explore them further. I haven't done anything like what you described in this post in years, but maybe I should change that. I'm single for a reason...I might as well take advantage of that more often.

At any rate, it's a fascinating peek into your psyche. I love the fact that you're completely honest, standing naked before us, sharing your experiences. It makes me feel less self-conscious about my own fetish experiences and wanting to explore them further.

OMG! That was a hot account. I love cmnm scenarios....You are a man after my own heart.

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Way back in August 2005 I started this blog and stopped writing several years later when life got too busy. I am leaving it up for future readers to find. I post pics almost every week though as I surf the net.

It isn't really about naked pics. It is about me exposing by deepest sexual secrets and leaving myself and my soul completely naked for the world to see.

Way back in the early 2000's I discovered a need to be vulnerable and naked in front of others, whether it be in public, among other naked guys, among clothed guys, or in front of authority.

Sometimes I like to be tied down, spanked, flogged and tortured. Sometimes I like to be physically examined and humiliated by someone of authority. I am a complete exhibitionist.

I also like to see others in the same situation where I am the one clothed or the one in authority.

I am not the greatest writer in the world. Some may say I stink and that I should keep my day job. I am not writing this blog to be a writer but to record my exploration of these fetishes. Every story is as accurate as my memory allows except the names of the people I encounter and most of the pictures. The pictures in this blog are, for the majority, not me. I pulled most of them from various sites on the internet. I will give credit to the individual photo owners when I know where they came from. If you see a pic that is yours and you want to take it down just let me know.

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