I often tell stories on this site about my sexual fetishes related to being examined by a doctor. It is a huge turn on for me when it is about playing roles. When it comes time for a real visit though, I become just as serious and professional about the visit as any regular patient. When picking a doc I am always concerned about homophobia among other things and have been hoping to see a group of doctors come together in some way and let us know they are out there and gay friendly.
I am so stoked about an association I just learned about through a new online friend. The GLMA has a referral engine to physicians that understand our issues. The healthcare providers on this site know more about the unique health concerns of LGBT people than your average doc. You can click here to connect to their Resources for Patients or just go to www.glma.org.
Tell em Jared Christopher sent you . . . and then just wait for the silent puzzled awkwardness.