Completely Naked

Jeff's Mom

When I first met her I didn't think I would like her.  She is a blueblood type from the east coast and looks every bit the part, especially with her silvery grey hair cut in a perfect bob.

I was totally wrong!

I've been spending a lot of time at their new place.  It is right on the coast in SF and I can walk right over to China beach on sunny days.  She and I have a lot in common and a lot to talk about.  She is my new best girlfriend right now.  Ok, my only female friend pretty much ever.  We go shopping together and out to lunch.  We even flew over to NYC a couple of weeks ago so that she could pick up a few things from the apartment.

I thought Jeff might be jealous but he isn't.  "I lived with her for 20-something years bro.  I don't need to be with her anymore.  You take her."  Nathan on the other hand isn't fully understanding my new infatuation with this woman but is willing to ride it out as long as it is "just a phase."

I highly recommend getting rid of your, I really hate this term there has to be a better one that I'm not thinking of, "fag hags," and get yourself a blueblood older woman.

Hope you guys have a great weekend.

j

Doing fine

Nathan and I are doing just fine.  I've been online maybe twice in the last few weeks.  We are finally getting settled into the new digs both in SF and the other place.  It has been difficult.

The renovations are coming along.  The insides of the place have been completely ripped out.  It looks really weird.  I'm driving Jeff crazy arguing with him over the little stuff like where to put extra outlets.  He thinks I'm being too detailed but I say everyone will be much happier if I force paying attention to the details.

We are in SF the next two days.  It is a gorgeous 71 degrees and sunny.

j

Work Naked

. . . in my fantasy world I would work naked. 

Well I finally started work.  I forgot how faced paced things are in the real world.  OMG I am so fucking tired.  Nathan just got in bed with me and is playing with my penis so I gotta cut this short cause I need it bad!

later

j

Life is getting complicated . . .

Life isn't really giving me a break this year.  A lot of it, ok all of it, I am doing to myself.  I knew this would be a year of change for me and it is certainly taking that path.

The permits are in place, the plans drawn, and the remodeling is beginning.   Jeff is completely gutting the place and has plans to restore it as close to the original design as possible, with a few hundred additional feet however.  Oh and a rooftop garden private enough to get naked.  Oh and wired up for the 22nd century of course.  The best part is that he is getting rid of all the sand in the backyard he had trucked in last year.

It is all too much for me and Nathan.  We've decided to move out for a few months (more like a year by the looks of things).  Jeff will stay behind as long as he can to oversee things.  I'll bet he will be living in our new digs in a month, or maybe his parents house.

I did finally change my career.  I thought my boss was going to have a heart attack when I told her.  They are still struggling to recover but I am sure I can be replaced.  I start the new job in a few weeks.  I am excited and scared at the same time.  I've been in the slow paced world of not-for-profit for a long time and didn't ever dream that I would go back to the private sector.  It will be challenging but the bank account and retirement fund will be very very happy.

For the most part my job isn't based in San Francisco.  I'm keeping the new city to myself for now.  I'll have an apartment and work there four days a week.  During the summer, while he is off work, Nathan will follow me around.  I think he is more excited than I am about living in two places.

Jeff finally told his parents he is gay.  SHOCK!  They weren't shocked at all.  They knew as many of you suspected they would.  He is mad at them now for not saying anything.  He has a very strange relationship with them.

It is going to be a fucking beautiful weekend in SF.  I may even head down to the beach.

That's it for now.

later

j

Off today

It is a beautiful day out today.  I've just called in to work and let them know I'm not going in.  Now for playtime . . .

Hey

Hey.  I know.  Where the fuck is Jared?  I've been busy working on a non-sexual, non-work, non-personal project.  A friend of mine is trying to publish a new technical book for the industry he works in and I've been trying to help him out by writing a few chapters.  Really more like putting the framework of the story together and cleaning up the delivery.  He is filling in all the blanks and we have an editor correcting all our  grammer and punctuation mistakes.  You know how I am with those . . .

After I work all day then spend the evening at his place to help him write I am totally brain dead and can't even bring myself to write up an entry here.  Needless to say I have no sex drive to play.  Nathan is getting a little mad at me because all I want to do is go to bed every night.

I have tonight free though and thought I would put this quick entry up and then spend it with my man.

later

j

Work stuff, advice and um stuff

I know this isn't the quality pic I usually post but I couldn't pass on sharing this hottie with you guys.

Work is killing me again this week.  We are trying to wrap up some issues before we take them upstate.  It is a high pressure thing that I wish I could just pour out on this blog.  Unfortunately I've seen way to many people fired for blogging about work so you'll never get more than these vague posts about it.

I work hard, most of the time 60 hours a week for, in my opinion, little pay.  My reward is in the fact that I am doing something with my career that is socially responsible.  Sometimes I wonder if it is worth it.  I mean, I used to have the same exact job as Jeff and was just as good as him in pulling in the cash.  Sometimes I think I should just go back.  Unlike Jeff, I save my money and on that kind of pay,  I could retire much sooner than the projected path I am on. OMG you know you're gettin old when you really talk seriously about retirement.

Oh shit, I'm sitting here watching Family Guy while I write this . . . Bert and Ernie are lovers and Bert is a drunk . . .LOL . . . that is the funniest thing I have ever scene . . . Bert is shouting at Ernie and he is whimpering in the bed. . .

Anyway, it would be the same long hours but at least I would be securing my future.  I don't know.  I just wasn't getting any satisfaction from that job and I find my current job so rewarding.  I just hate not having loads and loads of cash.  Of course you should have seen him yesterday and today when the market tanked . . . Jeff is a little stressed out right now too.

Hmmm.  The Lois character's voice is a little different in this episode.  I wonder if the actor change in later ones?

I know I am about to sound like your father but I have some advice for you younger guys.  If you follow my advice I swear you will be a much happier old man than most . . . and you'll be rich enough to have a boytoy on your side.  Trust me on this!  Ok wait, let me get up on my soap box.  Ok.  Start saving 10% of your income the moment you get your first job no matter how young you are.  Don't fucking stop.  Don't fucking spend it!!!  Don't fucking make excuses that you can't afford it right now and you will do it when you are making a little more.  Put it in a 100% stock based mutual fund and just leave it there no matter what the market does.  Contribute to it every paycheck without fail!!!  I guarantee that you will retire a rich man/woman.  Ok.  I am done.

Wow.  This is not what I sat down to post.  I was going to tell you about my massage.  Guess it will have to wait.  Nathan's got that look in his eye.

j

Total Embarrassment

I felt like I was having a panic attack in the waiting room this afternoon.  My heart was racing so hard I could feel the thumping in my ears.  My palms were cold and sweaty and my breathing shallow.  I hate going to the doctor.  Every time I go something embarrassing happens and not in a good way.  I know I have a medical fetish when it is playtime but when I really have to go for something I'm not thinking about sex or my fetish.  I'm thinking about two things; am I ok and will I get an erection when I have to take my pants off.

Home

I got up really really early this morning, went for a run and then worked out at my gym.  I did the hills this morning so my legs are screaming, "Jared what the fuck are you doing! 

I looked around at this beautiful city as I ran.  I really took it in this time and thought how lucky I am to be living here.  There are so many times I just get so busy and into my life that I forget where I live.

It is so normal to be gay here.  It is so normal to be different here.  No one even looks twice at you if you are different.  Different is the norm here.

This has to be one of the most beautiful cities in the world.  There are landmarks and stunning views at every turn.  On my run this morning I passed houses built the the 1800's, I passed gay couples walking along the streets hand in hand,  I passed a guy in a kilt, I passed an electric bus, and I passed two guys smoking 420, both sporting mohawks. 

Even though I constantly complain about the weather and long for my hometown beaches, I would live no where else in the world right now.

j

Ok boys, drop em

Ok.  So it's Monday MLK and I had to work.  I didn't enjoy it.

Jeff update:  He isn't moving upstairs and we aren't making this place into one house.  I'm a little bummed about it.  At least for now we aren't doing any rennovations.  Jeff has decided to become a landlord and rent it out.  I think he may have over-extended himself buying it.  Yes he had a huge down-payment but still.  I am sooo glad I didn't take a sledge hammer to the wall.  Ok and there was the permit thing too.  Thanks for the heads up CF.

Jared update:  I'm doing something naughty Thursday night.  Let's just say it has something to do with a group of guys and um, nudity.  Ok that is all you get just in case one of the participants reads my blog.  I did put a hint in one of the areas of my blog two weeks ago and left it there for a week before taking it down.

Nathan update:  Mmmmmm . . . tasty . . .

later

j